TikToker Lists Rules Side Chicks Must Follow When Dating Mubaba: "Heshimu Bibi Yake"

• A Kenyan TikToker elicited mixed reactions online after sharing a list of rules side chicks dating married men should follow
• Benjamin Bogonko advised side chicks to respect their lovers' wives, avoid drama, never get pregnant for them and not to fall in love
• Many echoed the TikToker's sentiments, while others said his research was baseless and there was nothing wrong with falling in love with a mubaba

A TikToker, Benjamin Bongonko, has advised women dating married men on how to ensure their relationships last.

Side chicks warned against loving married men

In a video he shared on TikTik, Bongonko shared a list of rules side chicks should follow in their relationships.

"Penda pesa yake, kitambi yake (Love, but never love him). Heshimu bibi yake na watoto wake. Hata bibi akikukera jifunz kunyamaza (Respect his wife and kids even if she crosses your path, learn to keep quiet)," he listed.

Bogonko urged women to ensure that their man's family is well taken care of and always remind him to support them.

"Look for a side man and never post photos of him o social media. Also, ensure that you have blocked your mubaba from viewing your WhatsApp status," he advised.

He went ahead to urge side chicks to create a peaceful environment for their men.

"Punguza drama na kelele mingi, mubaba ametoroka bibi yake juu ya hio hataki kukufa na stress. Mpunguzie stress (Don't be dramatic! He has left his wife to avoid drama because he doesn't want to die of stress. Be a stressfree woman)," he added.

The TikToker also told women to ensure they have agreed on how long to date because such flings don't last.

"Hii ni kazi, invest well."

He also advised side chicks never to threaten the men, never get pregnant for them and always show them that they can leave them anytime.

Chebet Ronoh shares experience dating mubaba

Recently, TUKO.co.ke reported that former radio host turned TikToker Chebet Ronoh opened up about her experience dating a mubaba and said she'll never do that again.

Former radio host turned TikToker Chebet Ronoh has opened up about her experience dating an old man and said she'll never do that again.

"It's not easy giving sugar to a corpse. I tried. I did everything, but I could not kiss him guys. The fact that people stared at me dining with an old man I could not recover. Everyone just looked me dead in the eye like this is where you're at, really? The whole time, this man is asking me philosophical questions from like B.C. It was a whole job interview. I feel like I was feeling out governmental forms," she said.

She said she couldn't even picture herself having anything more than dinner with the man, and attempting to try to kiss him put her off.

"I'm never doing this again. It needs a different type of confidence and illusion, and I'm not there right now; I can't," she added.