Nyakwar Janeko Slams Men Who Sleep In Women's Houses Without Supporting Them: "Mpeleke Lodging"

• Nyakwar Janeko elicited mixed reactions after arguing that men shouldn't sleep in women's houses unless they are financially supportive
• The TikToker told off men who visit women's houses, eat and sleep without giving them money, urging them to instead book hotels where they can spend quality times
• Nyakwar also told off men she described as broke to stop calling women and asking them silly questions like if they had eaten yet did not send them cash

TikToker turned relationship coach Carol Auma, aka Nyakwar Janeko, has advised men to stop bothering women with nonsensical questions, saying only supportive men have a right to do that.

Broke men don't deserve love -Nyakwar Janeko

Nyakwar, who has always blasted broke and stingy men, told off men who call women to ask them about things they haven't done for them. The mother of two was speaking during her TikTok live on Tuesday, August 15.

"Wewe hata pesa hujatuma na unaanza 'hello babe, umekunywa chai? umekula lunch? umekula supper?' Ulituma pesa ndio umuulize kama amekula (You haven't sent her money, and you are busy asking if she has taken breakfast, lunch or supper. Did you send her money so that you can keep bagging her with questions)?" she posed.

"Use M-Pesa to talk to her. Babe, can you confirm you have received cash the cash I sent? Such messages motivate women," she added.

She further told men to stop wasting time trying to please women with calls, saying they just prove how foolish they are.

"'Umealala aje (how did you sleep)?' Kwani unaexpect nilale vizuri kama jana sikukula (You expect me to have had a great night, yet I might not have eaten the previous night," she said.

Nyakwar called out men who admire other women's beauty, urging them to spend on their wives so that they look good too.

"Mnapenda kutamani wanawake wenye wameoga wewe kungarishisha bibi yako imekushinda unafuatafuata wanawake wenye wameoga, osha bibi yako afanane na wengine (.You like admiring other good looking women yet can't help your wife look like that too. Take care of her, let her glow like the other women you love). Unaambia dem makeup yako ni poa (you comment on how a lady's makeup is on point), yet it cost her KSh 2,000 and above and you can't give her," she added.

The TikToker said at times when men meet women in matatus, they compliment their looks, but when asked to pay their fare, they start whining and telling unending stories.

"Not today... na kwa gari amekazana kukuambia vile wewe ni mrembo," she said.

Nyakwar also blasted men who sleep in women's houses, telling them to book hotels.

"Peleka mwanamke kwa (take a woman to a) lodging ama hotel. Sio kuenda kwa mwanamke unakula chakula chake, unatumia choo yake (Not going to her house, eat her food, use her toilet), then leave without giving her money," she said.

Maina Kageni cautions men sleeping in women's houses

In a similar story published on TUKO.co.ke, women took to social media to share their opinions after Maina Kageni started the conversation about men who do sleepovers at women's houses.

"Ladies, why do allow them to move into your house? Why do you encourage it?" Maina asked.

Responding to Maina's question, a male fan said:

"I can’t unless it’s my mother's house. Small arguments unalala nje kama mbwa za Dandora (You're chased out of the house)".

Lang'ata MP Jalang'o also previously warned men against sleeping in women's houses, saying he had had bad experiences before.