Bernice Saroni Admits Understanding Ex-Husband's Desire For Peace, Avoid Drama: "Ni Kazi"

• Bernice Saroni shared how exhausting it is to hustle and run a household as a single mum that makes her only crave peace when she gets home
• She admitted that she now understood her ex-husband's cry for silence whenever he came home from hustling all-day
• Her post left many women sharing a similar lesson, while others encouraged her to go back to her children's father

US-based Kenyan Bernice Saroni has opened up about the things she's going through as a hustler and single mum that have helped her understand her ex-hubby.

She shared a video of herself driving and noted how tough it is taking care of kids, and when she gets home, she wants to sit still in silence.

Bernice Saroni's plans for next husband

Bernice also noted that should she remarry, she will give her husband space because she understands the struggles of a day's work.

"It is now that I understand, and I know that a lot of women will throw their mouths and speak trash. When I was married, my husband used to tell me, Bernice, I want silence. I have a busy day; I am stressed, trying to pay my mortgage and school fees. Now I understand. If I was to get married again, I would not make noise. I would give him silence as long as he is the breadwinner of the house," she said.

She added that sometimes, when she gets home, and her children want to raise issues, she asks them to postpone till the next day.

"It is not easy to sustain a home. And then you go to a house that has no peace? If I was a man, I would sign that divorce. I'll look for peace. I understand what men go through," she added.

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Here are some of the comments from social media users:

@user52202319690331 said:

"Si urudie tu baba watoto, on a lighter note please."

@Marionwamuci said:

"The only way to enjoy love is to keep having a new man after while. Mapenzi ikianza kubore unaruka before heartbreak."

@Khatinya said:

"Ni kama Mungu amekutuma umtetee."

@Judicaster said:

"It's not easy, rudi basi now you know."

@Njogu Comedian said:

"Ukiambia mwanamke hivo hawezi elewa anaonanga huyu mwanaume kama amechoka akilima side chic."

@Pry_Daddy said:

"This is why second wives huwa wametulia hivyo."

@Msoo said:

"Tuko wengi."

@User802952810424 said:

"A man wants peace but ile amekupitishia ni Mungu tu."

Saroni cheekily taunts baby daddy

The mother of four took her TikTok page to update her kids' educational progress despite her being the sole breadwinner.

She chided her absent baby daddy for abandoning his responsibilities and noted how she intends to buy their son a car when he turns 16.

Many netizens commended her for caring for her four boys, while others encouraged her to move on completely.

Proofreading by Asher Omondi, current affairs journalist and copy editor at TUKO.co.ke.