Kenyan Man Puzzled As Baby Mama Requests For Second Born With Him: "Hizi Ndio Gani?"

• A young married man who has been taking care of his daughter from a previous relationship was shocked when his baby mama asked him for another child
• The man approached lawyer Collins Wanderi and asked about the social and legal implications of having another child at his cost
• Wanderi told TUKO.co.ke that it was not a good idea, as some women are not genuine but are only looking for men to pay their expenses through children

A young man who had a child with an ex-girlfriend before parting ways is shocked as his baby mama has requested a second born with him.

Man co-parents with ex while married

Speaking to TUKO.co.ke, lawyer Collins Wanderi shared that the man and his baby mama have been peacefully co-parenting their child, and so far, so good.

"The man is well-off and has enough money and property. He parted with his ex in 2018; their daughter is turning 11 in November. Baby mama is still single and now wants a second child, said Wanderi.

"The man is, however, in another relationship and is engaged customarily and living with new lady," he explained.

What did lawyer Wanderi advice on the matter?

Wanderi, however, said that he had advised his client against such a move and provided several reasons for his decision.

"Good men want to support and be part of their children's lives but when baby mamas start asking for extras including but not limited to second borns at the men's cost, the good men must draw the line," he said.

" These big girls want to eat and have their cake at the same time. Some have seemingly made co-parenting a business and a way of having multiple 'husbands' each doing a particular task in her life. We have no option but to resist this manipulation and deception."

Kenyans react to strange request:

Diana Karema:

"If at all you are on good terms and aren't planning to marry, get another child with him, not to mix children."

Livingstone Irungu:

"A situation I have not come into terms with."

Edison Ventures:

"Nitampa second born what is the big deal?"

Martha Mash Kitum:

"If you’re in good terms, there’s no problem than having several baby daddies."

Caroline Wahome:

"Which men are this ❓ Even a millionaire is complaining about one child support. Murife run."

Mwana Wa Ndanu:

"That is a clear sign he wants to settle with the man fully, not " mbegu"; man should be as more than snake. Is a real time bomb."

Kiambu wife gets pregnant by another man

Elsewhere, Cecelia Njoroge was left all alone with an ailing child as her husband went to work in Dubai and seemingly forgot about them.

She later met a doctor who started treating her child, who had hydrocephalus, but sadly, he forced himself on her and then later kept sleeping with her so he could treat her son.

She got pregnant, and when her husband returned, it was too much for him, so he tore his clothes and later chased her away.

Proofreading by Mercy Nyambura Guthua, journalist and copy editor at TUKO.co.ke