Bernice Saroni Warns Wives Against Tolerating Disrespect From Hubbies Entertaining Side Chicks: "Utakufa"

• Bernice Saroni told women to avoid staying with husbands who have disrespectful side chicks who make them feel insecure
• The US music promoter urged women to walk away and choose themselves so they can take care of their kids
• She added that no woman was more special than another; hence none should make the other feel inferior just because they may have a good body or more money

US music promoter Bernice Saroni has cautioned married women against staying in marriages where their husbands entertain side chicks who constantly disrespect them.

The mother of four advised women to choose themselves and walk away because their kids will suffer if they are depressed.

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In a video she shared on her TikTok page, Saroni also claimed men only respect mothers who take good care of their kids.

"Never allow a man to disrespect you with another woman. Never. Juu ya nini? Status? Never. Never allow another woman to be brought into your life by your husband akulilishe machozi, akufanye you feel less of a woman, remember you have kids. Your kids need you more than anyone else, wacha nikuambie, utakufa, uzikwe, huyu dem atakuja matanga yako and guess what, atatesa watoto wako (you will dies, get buried and the side chick will come for the funeral and mistreat your children) and there's nothing you could have done, but if you choose yourself, you will take care of your kids," she said.

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Saroni also urged women to walk away and focus on themselves and their kids than be constantly fighting with their husband's side women.

"Always choose yourself, no matter how the situation is. No woman is special than another woman. We are all the same. We have all the body parts. But always choose yourself. Never allow the side chick wa bwana yako to make you feel vibaya because umeadd weight (make you feel bad because you added weight) because you are from giving birth, ati she has more money than you, ati yeye ndiye anashinda na bwana yako na bwana yako anampenda, (because she is the one who spends all the time with your hubby or is the one your hubby loves) it is fine. Time yako inaweza kuwa imeisha, you move to the next chapter," she added.

Saroni on being officially married

The mother of four once defended herself against social media trolls who claimed she advised Samidoh's wife, Edday Nderitu to leave her hubby and be a single mum like her.

Saroni confirmed that she was officially married and did everything as required by the traditions and never chose to be a single mother.

"I never chose my status kukuwa single mother. Hata mimi nikianza marriage yangu, I started it to finish it. Nikizalia mtu watoto wanne sikuwa natamani kuwa single mother hata siku moja," she said.